Life Moves On

We had a nice week here with Nathan. He and Tom used 42 bags of cement to put a floor on the chicken coop-- both inside the nesting area and in the small covered fenced area.  And still there was evidence of a varmint trying to dig into it.  Heh Heh.  Eat Rocks!

Then they spent time cutting down trees.

 And the cat looked on.  She has become a back porch cat... not a barn cat.  As soon as we open the door she is around our feet purring and asking to be picked up.

I had been having itchy and scaly ears for years.  It would come and go.  But now it seemed to be staying.  So I made an appointment with the dermatologist and got some prescription medicine for it. He said it was Seborrheic Dermatitis.  The medicine seems to be helping-- mostly a steroid oil that would have cost an arm and a leg without medicare/Tricare for life.

But it was an interesting step for me.  I have not used any prescription medicines in like, forever. And so many of our friends are on tons of pills.  So I felt like I was stepping into "old age" to go and get these prescriptions fulfilled-- especially for a disease that could not be cured, only managed.

In the ongoing saga of Creekside apartments,  I stepped into the position of representative of the owners and as such went to see the mayor. We had a very cordial visit and some of the material I presented to him helped soften his stance and better understand the owners.  There is so much value to face-to-face meetings. In this digital age, I think people in big cities or big companies forget the value of personal contact, especially in a small town.

I finished the website for www.QuantumDE.com or Quantum Dot Electronics.  Its a new start-up technology that takes computing down to the nano level.  I think that's a molecular level where the directional spin of the molecule indicates the "1" or "0" of a bite in computing. Talk about smaller-  it's 80,000 times smaller or more dense that current data storage.  And I'm now the proud owner of 50,000 shares of stock in exchange for my work.  May the company succeed WILDLY!

I made flyers and sent out notices in a last ditch effort to get sisters to do the Oil in Your Lamp program before November 6th George Dyer show.  I told them even if they hadn't started yet, they could start and accomplish goals.  I went back to my original goals and had accomplished all of them but those in the physical health section.  Hmmm.  Do I put in more effort there... or simplify my goals?

Thursday we took Nathan back home to Russellville.  It was fun to see Kera and Andy's new house. It's lovely.  And Kera has plans to make it even more lovely and serviceable and to put their own unique look to it.  Their kids have started back to school and seem to be doing well.  Even Charlotte, who is distinctly unenamored with kindergarten came home happy to share the story of Brown Bear Brown Bear What Do You See? And she did a very cute job of retelling the story.

Tom and I returned home on Saturday afternoon to find the chickens still alive and the cat (who had gotten locked in the garage) out and alive and happy.

We had a good time at church today.  The choir sang.  Last week the choir had a mutiny.  Some of the singers were tired of singing hard songs.  Actually it was a soprano and in the last two songs the sopranos didn't have the melody part of the time. And it wasn't "fun" to have to work so hard.  So we may be singing simpler songs.  But we did master this one and it soundedreally good when we sang the difficult parts correctly today.

It's hard to believe September is nearly here and the year is racing to the end.

Two weeks again…

I had a lovely time at Deborah’s beginning on Saturday August 8^th. She and Ian went to the hospital the evening of the 9^th for prep work for her induction on Monday. By Monday morning she was not showing much progress. But she moved forward pretty fast and had little Hailey Alexis at 1:03 on Monday afternoon. (8 lbs. 9 oz.  20” long) Deborah was tired and having afterbirth contractions so we didn’t visit her that night. The kids and I went to a park that morning and then just hung out.

Tuesday we went to the hospital to see Deborah and baby Hailey. She was very cute and alert. Deborah was feeling some better. The children found the hospital room an exciting new place to explore. And they were delighted to see the new baby. Steven had gotten water balloons for his birthday. So after lunch I spent about an hour filling up 50 or so water balloons while the kids played in the sprinkler. It’s a good thing they had time to play in the water. The balloons lasted about a minute and a half. Then they were all gone and we were left to pick up little balloon bits from the lawn.

There were still some balloons left over, so Sarah started blowing them up. The kids had SUCH a good time with the balloons… except for a few ownership problems. They kept the little ones occupied for hours. Even 20 month old Simon could figure out how to rub the balloon on his hair or clothing and get it to stick to the wall or gently slide down it. At one point Steven walked around with 5 balloons attached to his head by static electricity!

Ian came home and mowed the lawn, but Deborah called him back. She had a sudden allergic reaction that caused swelling of her tongue, hands and other places. She had a lot of activity in her room for a bit and is now the proud owner of an epi-pin.

Wednesday morning I awoke to hear a child quietly moving in the front room. The kids get up about 6am-6:15. This one was VERY quiet… but I was now awake. I thought it was Samantha but when I said Hello, it turned out it was Sarah. She was watching out the front window to see if her Mom was coming home yet.

The children washed bikes in the morning…aka… got wet again and had a great time. Deborah, Ian and baby arrived later than expected. After lunch Deborah had another allergic reaction, but not as severe as the first one. So she came home about 4 pm and I took off shortly after that to head home. We had decided that since Ian had two weeks of vacation, I’d come back after that to help out for a few more days.

This week was international indexing week, so I indexed one batch of names to be placed in genealogical records. Tom had spent time working on issues for Creekside apartments, and we did a little more on that. Basically we got the job done as far as connecting the owner with contractors who could do lights, electricity, and cameras… although not necessarily at the prices he wanted. I got some writing done on the start-up website and prepared to train and teach the Relief Society at the Ash Flat Branch conference coming up on Sunday.

Saturday we went to Branson to do some shopping, check out resorts for family reunions (big and small) and get parts for the John Deere tractor. On the way, Ian called. Deborah was in the ER with breathing problems. Could I come back and watch kids?  I could not until after Sunday church, but Miranda came over for Saturday and until Sunday afternoon. I love my family!  They are all awesome people!

Deb’s problem seemed to not be allergy related as it did not respond to any of the allergy meds. In testing Deborah they learned she had fluid on her lungs. Not enough for pneumonia, but enough to make breathing harder. They gave her some diuretics and she lost 10 pounds in about 36 hours. She still has swollen feet. One of the tests made her radioactive. So she could not hold Hailey for two days or nurse her for 3 days. Sigh!

Sunday was a good meeting at Ash Flat. It’s about an hour’s drive to the east. I came home and packed. Tom and I decided to have him drive me to Deborah’s. Then he would continue on to Miranda’s and help her with the ceiling scraping and painting that she’d put on hold to go to Deborah’s. He dropped me off about 7:30 Sunday evening and went on.

Tom spent the next few days doing the scraping and painting, but also hanging lights in the garage, replacing a toilet flange in the lower bath, and laying linoleum in said bathroom. Then he and Dan put all the stuff back so it was once again a working bathroom.

Deborah was really good at not holding Hailey and trying not to have the other kids close to her. And of course they so wanted Mama. Fortunately school started on Monday and three of the children were out of the house. By Monday afternoon she could hug and hold them. Ian and I were the baby bottle feeders. Ian was a trooper!  He took the night shifts with Hailey. I was so impressed with him. He did a great job.

Ian and I helped get the kids off to school. I drove them the first morning and we survived. They seem to be happy at school. Sarah is a good helper making lunches and Deborah had a lot of the food organized.

When Hailey could go back to nursing on Tuesday, she took to it like a duck to water. Nice not to have trouble with that.

Tom picked me up on Wednesday and we got home in time for his church meetings that night. I had gotten a message from my start up group requesting I work on another website this week and try to get it done by Friday. Akk!  It was about ferroelectric nanostructures with piezoelectric properties and displaying a field induced vortex chirality. Talk about a learning curve!  Once I dissected the language I was able to make it understandable to the average 10^th grader that this technology could pack memory into a space 100,000 times smaller than today’s technology. I did finish it by Friday.

Saturday we got up early and drove to Memphis. We met Nathan, Andy, Kera, and Kera’s dad, David at the temple. Nathan took out his endowments. He will leave in exactly a month for his mission. It was nice to go through the temple with family. We went to Costco’s afterwards and then on to a delicious Chinese buffet. Then we brought Nathan home with us for about a week for slave labor.

We had excellent talks today at church. Nathan was one of the speakers and did a great job. I found some family members as I worked in the family history center during the second hour. And we had a good lesson on being genuine in Relief Society.

Sorry for the long missive…

Back to work

I think we spoke about Creekside Apartments and the owners asking us to do some coordination of work on it. From some misguided sense of loyalty, we agreed to get a contractor to put up security lights and security cameras. That doesn’t sound like such a tough job.

But the wires have been cut to and from some of the meter boxes and circuit breaker boxes. Even though someone was to secure the building, there are more doors opened each time we go. We’ll need a secure place for the modem for the wireless cameras. And the configuration of the buildings means that there will need to be many lights and cameras.

However, the more we email the owner, the more we realize he wants a lot done for not much money. We give him options and he says, “That’s too much money.” So the job is more work than anticipated as we have to spend time seeking other options and getting things properly done. We’ll need to meet with the utility company engineer. We need to create a game plan. We may need to get city approval for a permit as well as working on connecting phone and electricity (which ultimately the owner must do.)

I spoke with my mastermind group this week. I said, “I haven’t heard back from my “whale” of a prospective client. I’ve sent 3 emails and no response. I don’t thinks she liked the proposal.”  They told me what I’d tell someone else. “Don’t prejudge or assume. Keep trying to connect until you get a response.” So I sent a clever email entitled “Alligators?” About how it’s hard to drain the swamp when you’re up to you ankles in  alligators, so maybe she wasn’t responding because she had so many urgent demands. But since I hadn’t heard from her in a month, I wondered if the alligators had resulted in her demise and if so, I certainly wanted to send condolences.

I got a reply back in just a few hours: Hadn’t she emailed me already?  It was on the editor’s desk, along with a bunch of other things, and she’d try to address it next week. I was glad to know I didn’t need to send condolences!

I’ve also been getting more involved in this start-up group. I will likely be doing some writing for brochures going out to prospective investors. I was on a call with one financial advisor who helps clients use their self-directed 401k’s for alternative investments. A lot of people want choices other than stocks to put their retirement money into. The change in laws means that non-accredited investors can invest in these start up companies— but no more than 10% of their annual income in any one start up.

 I also have my first start-up company website to write content for in exchange for stock in the company. And I had a lovely call with the marketing director for Simpler Options. It’s a company I follow and have taken classes from, so I’m excited about the potential to work with them. At this point— lots of possibilities. No cash.

We had the young man who was baptized and the missionaries over for dinner and sat in on a new member discussion. I need to keep remembering these missionaries are only 18 so they don’t have years of experience Tom and I brought to our teaching of the lessons. The gospel is exciting and powerful!  It’s so much more effective when it’s taught that way.

My neighbor came over and I taught her how to make crocheted necklaces. She did a lovely job and is excited about the possibilities of marketing them. While our garden is not so attractive, it’s producing as many cucumbers and tomatoes as we can eat. I should be planting a fall garden now.

Saturday Tom and I went to see Antman, the movie. I enjoyed it. We did the afternoon matinee. Then I got into the car and drove to Deborah’s house. I got here a little before 10pm. Her church is at 8:30 so it was up early and off to church. A nice ward and good lessons.

Deborah had been having contractions off and on and hoped to go into labor on her own. She went into the hospital this evening to be prepped for an induction tomorrow. So one way or another, the baby will come shortly. I am grandma over the other children while she and Ian are at the hospital. The children are good kids and we are enjoying each other.

I had a call with the other stake auxiliary leaders tonight at 7pm and was a bit worried how that would go. But the kids were really good and quiet for the call. They were a little more vocal about bedtime… but all is quiet now.

Home again, Home again, Jiggity Jig

First, some last pictures of the reunion-

Here are photos of our Saturday trip to the falls.

 And to the Rexburg Temple.

The beginning of the week started at Adam and Savannah's. We had such lovely weather.  It was cool.  Sometimes cool and rainy!  I think I dressed more warmly there than I did in Colorado.  It was about 50% in the mornings!

Monday we went to see the rose garden next to the visitor's center.  The rose garden was underwhelming.  I think Savannah's Mom's front yard has more roses.  But the kids had fun running on the circular walk ways and we got lots of information at the visitor's center.  There was also a monument to Chief Pocatello and we learned a lot about him and the government's less than stellar treatment of the indians. We stopped at Deseret Industries and spent a whole $1.50 in purchases.  It was raining and cold by the time we were headed home for lunch. In the afternoonTom and I went back to Deseret Book to get garments.  Monday night we babysat while Adam took Savannah out to the theater for her birthday.

Tuesday morning I made a cheese cake for Savannah's birthday.  "Happy Birthday, Savannah!" In the afternoon we went to registration rock and a park on the Snake River.  Registration rock has names and dates of pioneers etched on it. It was a small park with a little stream running by and enough rocks for the kids to climb on.

The other park had a lovely nature trail with native fauna.  I learned the value of sage brush... which things I never knew before. We saw a snake and some rabbits.  There were many rocks to climb there as well as a few cacti for kids to learn from. We visited the nature center. There were two frisbee golf courses there, but we did not partake.  At the far end of the park there was a trail leading to ruts made by the pioneer wagons.  The kids were really quite good at hiking these trails.  I gained a lot of respect for the pioneers and the leaders who guided them through these rocky areas.  While the snake river was close by, it was often flowing between rock walls.  How awful it must have been to have water so near, yet so inaccessible.

After the two miles of hiking, Savannah promised the children could wade in the river.  Alas, the only access was at the boat launch ramp and it was slick with algae.  They might have only gotten their toes and knees wet... if they had not each slipped on the algae and gone down.  So... they changed into dry swim suits for the ride home.  Adam was home by then and made carbonara for Savannah's birthday dinner.

Wednesday we headed for the museum of natural history. It was on the college campus.  While it was small, it had a nice little kid's playing area and some very big bones!  We saw mastodon bones and a giant sloth and sabertooth lions. We also saw little bones.  Now I know what a snipe is!  If I ever go snipe hunting, I'll know what to look for.  It's a small gray and white striped bird with a very long, thin beak.

We had fun with Denali, Carter, Piper and baby Miley.  They are good kids and fun to be around.  Tom and I read them stories.  Tom wrestled with them and we watched them climb trees and play nicely with each other.  They are very gentle with little Miley.

Thursday we started for home.  We had some books on tape to listen to and made it to North Platte for the night. Friday we still had about 700 miles to go.  We stopped at a Carlos O'kelley's for lunch of naked nachos.  I think the plate size is shrinking... but it was still flavorful.  We also stopped at Gordon's orchard and bought two boxes of peaches.  They are so much more tasty than the store-bought kind!

We arrived home to find one less kitten and one less chicken. So Monday we will get a trap for the racoons. I was sad that Maple, the ginger colored kitten had been attacked.  We've decided to cage the calico one at night until we've solved the raccoon problem.

Saturday, I dug into work on the computer and Tom did the honors with the peaches.  He canned three batches of peach slices and halves. Only one bottle broke in the canner and all the other sealed.  We still have some eating peaches... but he might also try for a batch of jam on Monday.

 Before and after pictures.

The canning stopped so we could attend a 1pm baptism of a young man.  He seems very nice. We hope to have him over for dinner this next week.

And We're off the the Reunion- 2 weeks

It’s been two weeks since I last caught you up with what’s happening in our lives.

Monday Tom and I drove to Miranda’s to help them pack up. Miranda left with the children to go and babysit Kera’s kids while she went out to help Melinda with her first baby. So Tom and I were there with Dan to pack up the kitchen and whatever else needed packing. Tom made a number of trips over to the new house. They were kind enough to let them store things in the garage. Dan had people coming to move the big things later in the week.

We left Tuesday afternoon and stopped to visit Deborah and Ian on the way home. It’s so nice to have family close by.

Creekside apartments is the "ghetto" rental in our town.  It was foreclosed on and has sat vacant for 2 years now. The city wants to tear it down.  Through Elance, I started corresponding with the new owners.  They wanted someone to inspect it a few times a week.  Not the job for me.  But they asked me to write a report on the history, the community sentiment, what it might take to make it a successful rental again (Not including the structural needs.)  I was also hired to give them a list of local contractors to do some of the work.  So I hurried and accomplished that before I left.

Thursday morning I attended the crocheted necklace class.  It was easy to learn to make them and they look so attractive, I really like them.  I had purchased some of the lattice ribbon to take to the reunion to teach people who wanted to learn there. Thursday afternoon we got ready to leave. We had our mower and garden waterer come over to be instructed. We did laundry and packed.

Early Friday we left to drive to Jonathan and Kristy’s. Tom wanted to help them with some fencing before we all left on Saturday. They were concerned about making sure their animals were safe. That evening they took the two small dogs to the dog sitters. Early Saturday we carpooled out to Denver. We had Isabelle and Miriam in the car with us.

In Denver we met up with Dan and Miranda and family, Deborah and Ian and family, and Andy and Kera and family. The hotel offered a free “snacks” dinner with salad, baked potato, hot dogs and chili and chips and cheese, but we had to be there before the cutoff at 7pm. We got there about 6:40. Even though the food might not have been my first choice, it was nice not to have to go out to eat. We all congregated in the dining room. Before or after, some went swimming. In the morning we kind of had a double breakfast. Some went out about 6:30 when breakfast opened. Then many went back about 10 am, before we headed out for church.

We went to the Arvada ward— where Kera and Dan had lived many years before. They were a welcoming ward and very kind. They let us use the kitchen for our brood to make lunches before we headed on to the YMCA camp at Snow Mountain. We hit some rain on the climb into the mountains to the campground. Our cabins were large and roomy… although some families were squashed a bit into their rooms. We had Emily stay in our room to free up some space in Jonathan and Kristy’s room.

We were in the middle of the three seven room cabins and a brief walk to the main, 8 bedroom cabin. I think our cabin was the party cabin as most nights we had riotous games of Wacky Six, Five Crowns, Uno, and Corazon going on. So people also brought in food. The most delightful was a great guacamole dip and chips. I think it outdid the brownies!

We had family pictures.  Here are some from our session.

We had breakfast and lunch in our cabins and dinner in the main cabin. We spent a lot of time visiting with others. The YMCA had many activities and families and groups of kinfolk split off to try most of them. On the first day Tom and I went with about 70 others to the tubing slope. It was a man-made tubing run— water sprayed on a with Velcro kind of mat. At first I thought it was too steep to go on so I volunteered to hold babies. But later on I tried it and it was fun!

We also went on a hike.

And had a rainbow sunset.

Wednesday we went horseback riding with Katie, Sarah, Andy, Ty and Charlotte as well as Steph and Vic, and the Vermerren family. Later many of Andy’s and Jonathan’s family and Tom and I went on the zipline. The scariest part was climbing the wiggly 50 foot ladder. After that, the zipline was easy. We only had time for one run… and that was okay with me.

Other people did archery, roller skating, miniature golf, and white water rafting. We had singing in the main cabin for several hours on Monday. Our family was in charge of dinner that night— a baked potato bar. Monday the English’s did worst, hotdogs, and potato salad. Tuesday the Swiss Fox family was in charge of Spaghetti, salad and brownies. Wednesday the Swarthout family fixed some great nachos and ice cream sundaes.

 Jamie went down the line sharing extra whip cream-- spraying it in their mouths.

One night we cooked s’mores over a campfire in a drizzle. The next night we had brownies amidst kids’ games and then a softball game. Wednesday we had a chance to ask Mom questions about her life. And then we watched a slideshow of photos from the reunion. It was so nice of Mom to support this family gathering.  Thanks Mom!

I had a chance to teach a few people how to make necklaces. And my cousin Paul, (mom’s brother Ernest and Karen’s oldest son) and his wife, daughter, and grandson came one afternoon and we had a chance to visit. I hadn’t seen him since I was about 12. Also, Mom had a chance to visit with Harold Conroe, Aunt Elsie’s (Nana’s sister) oldest son who was 91 and his daughter.

It was sad when we had to pack up on Thursday. Tom is such a hero. He quietly organized and cleaned and supported. He got our cabin ready to go faster than any other cabin. I went down and visited with Mom for a while. Deborah felt pretty pregnant. She had less than a month before the baby was due. So she and Ian took off early to get home in a day, as did Kera and Andy. Miranda and Dan also planned to get home in a day so they could close on their new home on Friday. Jonathan and Kristy planned to make two days of it. Tom and I started toward Pocatello and Adam’s house. We made good time and arrived about 7pm.

Friday we hung out and later went to Deseret Book for our west-of-the-Rockies fix. We’ll try to get in a Deseret Industries run as well. Saturday we drove to a lovely waterfall and went on a hike. It was great to see so much water gushing and spilling over the drop. It wasn’t a great drop, but the width of the river was impressive and the weather was delightful.

We hadn’t planned on the 14 miles of gravel roads which made the trip take longer. But we were glad for Adam’s peanut butter sandwiches. The falls were actually just inside Yellowstone National Park. So, technically, we went to Yellowstone.

We stopped in Ashton to eat at a great hamburger place, Jud’s Burgers. We decided against the one and two pound burgers, but the ones we ordered were tasty as was the giant shake. Then, on the way home, we stopped in Rexburg for gas. We could see the temple spire and so we drove over there and walked around the grounds.

In the evening we went to the stake’s Pioneer Day celebration. They served baked beans, rolls, and a cake- from old pioneer recipes. Then we broke into groups. Each ward had a standard bearer and we went from room to room. In one room we played pioneer games- tossing hoops and stick pulling. Then next room we sang pioneer songs. Then we went on to a “campfire” in the Relief Society room with stories. And finally they had dancing in the cultural hall. It was simple and fun.

Today we went to church and the ward again seemed very welcoming. How nice to have the ward and stake center only a few blocks away. This evening, Adam baked a cake to celebrate Tom’s birthday. We celebrated his birthday along with Spencer Swarthout and another and an anniversary at the reunion with tasty cake. But now he got an extra celebration.

Whirlwind Days

My Kid’s lives are so crazy, mine seems tame by comparison. Jonathan and Kristy have moved into their new home, but are busy trying to get all the fencing up that needs to be done before they leave for the reunion. Deborah is very pregnant and working hard to keep her blood sugar under control. And checking out hospitals along the route to the reunion…. Just in case.

Andy and Kera moved into their new house. Then a few days later, they helped her dad unload all his things into his new house less than a half hour from their home. Kera has been shuffling kids back and forth to Vicksburg for scout camp (Aaron) and Youth Conference (Katie and Nathan.) We just heard that her sister Melinda will be induced with her first baby and Kera promised to come out and be with her in Utah. So Kera will leave on Sunday (July 12^th) to drive out there for we're not sure how long. We hope she will make it to part of the reunion.

In the meantime Miranda and Dan are packing and stressing about their houses closing on Friday the 16^th so they can get to the reunion. However, Miranda promised Kera she’d babysit Kera’s children when Kera went to Utah to help her sister Melinda with the baby. So Miranda and kids are abandoning Dan to finish packing while she goes to Russellville to babysit.

Tom and I had been planning on going to Miranda’s to help pack and maybe fix the roof that one guy said he could fix… but then he couldn’t. But they found someone else to fix it in less than a week before the house is to close. On the good side, the new house owners will let them store stuff in the garage this week before the closing. And on the plus side, Tom and I can pack everything in sight since Miranda and the kids will not need it before the move.

So what has been going on in our less exciting lives?

Monday night we went to our Empty Nester’s group for a pot luck at the park at Lakeview. Tuesday we went to Silver Dollar City.

It was storming that day. Rain was predicted all day. But it was the only day we could go and I didn’t think it would rain THAT hard. I wanted to see the Harlem Globetrotters that were playing there. We did and we wandered through some shops and saw the new show at the saloon which I thought was cuter than some in the past. I was also able to get some large crochet hooks for a project coming up.

We weeded the garden and Wednesday we finally canned 8 pints of pickled beets. I love pickled beets, but found I don’t care all that much for just plain steamed beets.

A friend at church makes these fantastic lace necklaces. I will learn how to make them on Thursday of next week. But I wanted to be able to teach anyone who wanted to learn at the reunion. So I spent time looking at some of the 52 shades of ladder ribbon I can use and narrowing my choice down to half a dozen. They arrived and I’m very excited about sharing the fun with the family at the reunion.

As I’ll be out of town most of the rest of the month, I wanted to get my newsletters done before I left. I did get a draft out. It may be that some of the owners want to put in a special promo or a letter specifically from them, I can get that done. But I didn’t want to have to write and organize 9-11 articles and get them properly formatted as soon as I got home. After all, shortly after I get back from the reunion and visiting Adam I get to go to Deborah’s to help with a new baby.

Thursday afternoon I jumped ship and played with pottery again. I want to do some dishes with Queen Ann’s Lace imprinted in it. And the flowers only bloom for a period of time. This time I cleaned up my crock and then worked on a 9x13 casserole dish. I took the wet piece home to clean up on my own since I won’t be able to go back to Marian’s before we leave.

Friday evening we had a long awaited Bishopric dinner. It had been planned a month or so ago, but then one of the wives was in a car accident and had a broken rib. So we rescheduled it. I felt rushed will a thousand things I can’t even remember now.—running errands, mailing things, blah, blah—but I did get some broccoli salad and cucumber salad made. Everyone else brought dishes and we had a lovely meal and great conversation.

We talked about where to have it next, and the wife of the executive secretary said, “We’ll be out of town then.”  We said, “When will you be out of town?” She said, “Whenever the dinner’s supposed to be at our house.”  She’s such a sweet, timid looking woman, it was funny to hear her joke.

Saturday we had house sitters come to get information on lawn mowing, plant watering and chicken and cat feeding. We had home and visiting teachers come. We had people come to tell us how we could give the cats their shots and not have to pay $40/per cat times 4 at the vet’s. Tom bushhogged the field and mowed the lawn.

Today we had good meetings in church. A lot of it was about being in tune with the spirit. Tom has Bishop’s Youth Discussion going on now with lots of tasty refreshments. The youth seem to enjoy coming over. After that’s over we’ll see about getting ourselves over to Miranda’s.

Trading Sideways

I spend a lot of time looking at the financial markets. I do some investing. I do some options. With options, you hope the market trades sideways so they expire without being called… and you get to keep your money. The market has been going mostly sideways this year.

I feel like my weeks have been going sideways too. I’m not making the advancements I’d like to make but neither are things going poorly. I had hoped to land my “whale” and have an excellent client. Alas, the client has gone on vacation for the next week or so and so nothing will happen. She didn’t have a chance to review my proposal, so I don’t know if it’s likely to be accepted or not. And so we wait. I’ve been reaching out to other clients… but so far, nothing exciting.

In the meantime, I wrote my 9 articles for the HVAC newsletter. It’s due shortly after I get back from the reunion, so I wanted it out of the way, if possible, before I go. My marketer for whom I write the newsletter finally landed his “whale.”  So in the next six months there may be a trickle-down effect. And I’ve been talking to an interesting person about start-up companies.

Tom decided to go to his 50^th high school reunion in October so we will go and visit Mom in the beginning of October. Then I will fly out on the 13^th to go to my copywriting bootcamp. I got the tickets for that flight this week.

I have a new counselor in my Relief Society presidency. She is very nice. We decided to drive to the temple together—the 4 of us: President, 2 counselors, and secretary—on Wednesday. It was a long day as I live the farthest away and had the most dependable car so we took it. But we had lovely visits on the way up and the way back and a nice session in the temple. One of the counselors drove a good percentage of the way home, which was a big help to me.

Thursday I finally went back to Marian’s to do some pottery. We always have such fun and varied conversations. She’s a great teacher. I had made a large crock out of dark clay. Last time I was there I glazed it. When it fired, it got a crack on the bottom. So it could be used for a planter… but not a crock. Alas, the glaze turned out differently on the darker clay, and it’s pretty ugly. When you want to see how clay and glaze will work together, you typically make a small “test tile” that’s an inch or so big. Marian said, “You made a really BIG test tile.”  Remind me next time to start out smaller.

So while we were there, I went back to my favorite white clay and imprinted it with Queen Ann’s lace and created another crock. What I like about Marian is that her pottery is all useful. She was telling me about a garlic and chocolate grater made of concentric rings on a plate. She said people knew about it on the east coast and west… but not here. Apparently the two best enzymes in the garlic for your health blend together when garlic is grated, but not diced. Who knew?

Tom got stung by a wasp on Thursday and he hauled some vines and tree debris on Friday. Between the two of them he has a rash on one arm that's spreading to various places on his body.  It doesn't look like poison ivy... but it's a rash and it's red and spreading.  Poor man.

I don’t remember if I told you about a group of us going and singing to Walt, a member of our ward who was in failing health. That was apparently one of his last good days. He passed away on Tuesday. It was a yours, mine, ours family and 8 of the 9 children and their families came to the funeral held on Saturday. July 4^th was one of his favorite holidays and they celebrated his life by holding the funeral on that day. Tom needed to be there to officiate and it was lovely to see all the family come together and enjoy one another. It made me wonder what mine or Tom’s or Mom’s funeral will be like.

I mentioned a lady visiting our ward who makes lace necklaces. She volunteered to teach me. So I checked with the RS president and then invited other sisters from the ward to come and learn with me. I announced it at church today and showed them some of the lovely necklaces. Now we need to find the 11.5 crochet hooks (about the size of my index finger) to make the necklaces.