Last week found Rebecca driving Josh to catch his flight in Little Rock, then returning to our house for a short break before grabbing a rental car to drive to Jonathan's for the night so she could catch a Tuesday morning flight back to Okinawa. All of that proceeded normally up to the catching her flight home. The plane had maintenance issues so she was rescheduled for a later in the evening flight. By then we realized that Sandy's health was deteriorating; did Rebecca want to come home instead? She made the decision to cancel her flight, rent a car and come home.Unfortunately, her luggage did not get the memo. Five days later, United still isn't sure where it might be. Meanwhile, Rebecca has had a good time visiting thrift stores to replenish her supply of clothes,
With the deterioration of Sandy's health, she decided that the sibling reunion scheduled to be held in Branson was not realistic for her to attend; so the venue was changed to our house. With Rebecca in Springfield, she was able to pick up Sally and Steve from the Branson airport and drive them to Mountain Home. Steve and Kathy drove and arrived later that day.
Then Cynthia and Jim drove in after flying into Fayetteville on Thursday. So Sandy's family was all here. Over the next couple of days family members struggled over assembling a complicated jig saw puzzle, worked on equally challenging family history, read and visited. Sandy was able to participate in much of the conversations.
I tried to get over to complete some items at the house we are putting up for sale. I was able to get someone to clean it and Rebecca helped me pressure wash the exterior. On Saturday, Steve English helped cover two of the crawl hole spaces so no rodents can gain access. The house should go on the market tomorrow.
With help from various family members, we got the fountain in front operational and I took Sandy out one evening so she could enjoy the sound of the dripping water and the night bugs.
Saturday, Steve English and I went to help a long time ward couple pack their 26 foot van. We spent about two hours and came home. There was plenty of help since this was a well liked couple. They will be missed.
Sandy did not attend church today; she is too weak to even stand on her own anymore. The primary gave their annual program during the first hour (they always do a great job). During the second hour we had the youth program broadcast explaining the new program. Sounds very upbeat and positive. Afterwards there was a linger longer; the first in many years and there was a good turnout. Rebecca had made cinnamon rolls and we took in over a dozen; they were all consumed. Good thing Kathy had also made her gooey sticky buns and we were able to enjoy those at home.
Sunday, September 29, 2019
Monday, September 23, 2019
September Happenings
First the me stuff: I was able to run Monday, Wednesday and Friday with Rebecca and then we participated in a 5 K on Saturday. The local Food Bank sponsors an annual fund raising event complete with activities, music, food, a kayak race and a 5 K. Rebecca chose to run the entire race at my pace and we crossed the finish line at 31:02, a time I was pleased with, although slower than last year's pace.
I also spent time at the rent house and finally got 95% of the painting done by working half days there. On Wednesday, I took Rebecca with me to one of her rent houses that needed the exterior pressure washed.
Monday evening, the local movie theater showed "the Other Side of Heaven, Part 2". It was a special request and the promoters would only show it if at least 35 people signed up. Normal attendance on a Monday night is 20; there were approximately 75 for this showing.
On Monday Sally left; then Steve and Kathy departed on Tuesday. Their visits were appreciated and Sandy enjoyed their presence even for the short duration of their stays. Then Saturday night Joshua (White) flew in from college in Utah. He arrived in Little Rock and Katie was kind enough to transport him here. She had to leave Sunday afternoon, but not until we had time to make fudge (it's tradition).
Sandy has been 'busy' coming to closure on several projects she would like to see completed. Sue and Steve were very helpful locating a water fountain for the front (the last one broke two years ago) at Home Depot and Steve helped getting it assembled and now we once again have the sound of running water in the front. I have going through her emails unsubscribing to most of her business related emails that she subscribed to when she was still writing; now they are of no value to her. We have three older laptops that need reviewing to see if there is any valuable data on them before they are discarded. Sandy was unable to access the oldest one, dating back to our Georgia Mission days, but Josh worked his magic and it is now downloaded on a jump drive for us to review.
Josh's stay ended this morning (Monday). Rebecca is driving him back to Little Rock to catch his flight; then she will return, pick up a rental car, and drive to Springfield for her Tuesday morning flight. Visits are always appreciated and enjoyed; we have certainly been spoiled by all the attention Sandy is getting by visiting family; we especially appreciate their preparing yummy meals for us when they are here!
Sunday afternoon, Sarah and daughter Hannah stopped by. Sarah is great at massaging Sandy's swollen feet and Hannah and Katie busied themselves in the kitchen making fudge. Then Katie had to leave. But the relief society president and her oldest son stopped by and we had some good visiting time. And before they left, Tanya Kelley arrived for a couple of days. We certainly feel loved and cared for.
Sandy continues to amaze us with her strength and stamina; some days are better than others, but she is mostly void of pain. But she is slowing growing weaker. Your prayers and contact with her are appreciated.
I also spent time at the rent house and finally got 95% of the painting done by working half days there. On Wednesday, I took Rebecca with me to one of her rent houses that needed the exterior pressure washed.
Monday evening, the local movie theater showed "the Other Side of Heaven, Part 2". It was a special request and the promoters would only show it if at least 35 people signed up. Normal attendance on a Monday night is 20; there were approximately 75 for this showing.
On Monday Sally left; then Steve and Kathy departed on Tuesday. Their visits were appreciated and Sandy enjoyed their presence even for the short duration of their stays. Then Saturday night Joshua (White) flew in from college in Utah. He arrived in Little Rock and Katie was kind enough to transport him here. She had to leave Sunday afternoon, but not until we had time to make fudge (it's tradition).
Sandy has been 'busy' coming to closure on several projects she would like to see completed. Sue and Steve were very helpful locating a water fountain for the front (the last one broke two years ago) at Home Depot and Steve helped getting it assembled and now we once again have the sound of running water in the front. I have going through her emails unsubscribing to most of her business related emails that she subscribed to when she was still writing; now they are of no value to her. We have three older laptops that need reviewing to see if there is any valuable data on them before they are discarded. Sandy was unable to access the oldest one, dating back to our Georgia Mission days, but Josh worked his magic and it is now downloaded on a jump drive for us to review.
Josh's stay ended this morning (Monday). Rebecca is driving him back to Little Rock to catch his flight; then she will return, pick up a rental car, and drive to Springfield for her Tuesday morning flight. Visits are always appreciated and enjoyed; we have certainly been spoiled by all the attention Sandy is getting by visiting family; we especially appreciate their preparing yummy meals for us when they are here!
Sunday afternoon, Sarah and daughter Hannah stopped by. Sarah is great at massaging Sandy's swollen feet and Hannah and Katie busied themselves in the kitchen making fudge. Then Katie had to leave. But the relief society president and her oldest son stopped by and we had some good visiting time. And before they left, Tanya Kelley arrived for a couple of days. We certainly feel loved and cared for.
Sandy continues to amaze us with her strength and stamina; some days are better than others, but she is mostly void of pain. But she is slowing growing weaker. Your prayers and contact with her are appreciated.
Monday, September 16, 2019
Anniversary Week
This was a GREAT WEEK.
I was able to go run three times and actually decrease my time by week's end. It has been wonderful having Sue and Steve here to help with Sandy; this has allowed me time to run errands and work on the rent house.
While working on the house Monday, Sandy had a dentist appointment and then had Sue and Steve take her to Walgreens for a few items. While getting out did her some good, this is also the day she 'crashed' (my term) and issued some edicts to Sue: contact Rebecca and others and tell them they need to come quickly. And amazingly, they were all able to come!
Kristy was one of those she wanted to see so we could close some financial issues. She was there before the day was over and brought three of her children. Besides being a support for Sandy, she was able to 'download' some important data into my brain; fortunately they live close enough that a refresher will be easy. Due to a Wednesday night commitment, they had to leave that afternoon. But it was great to have them visit.
I continued to work around family visits and was able to get the rent house trim 95% painted; so the walls will be easy to do. Hopefully it will be ready to go on the market by week's end.
Rebecca was able to change her flight plans for a visit in October and was due to fly into Springfield Thursday night. Adam had previously made flight arrangements into LR for the same night. Knowing that Adam only had a 40 minute layover in Denver, we were anxiously monitoring his flight status. We were focused on the wrong flight. He had no problems; he arrived in LR, picked up his rental car (a Dodge Charger!), and drove up arriving about 3 am Friday morning.
Meanwhile, Rebecca, who flew into Chicago had over three hours before her next flight. Unfortunately, that flight was cancelled as was the one they rebooked her on. So she spent the night in Chicago and was able to fly into LR Friday afternoon. Andy's family was leaving Friday; so Katie and drove one car to LR to pick up Rebecca and Andy drove the rest of the family direct to our house. All were here by dinner time.
Nathan flew into Tulsa on Wednesday, spent the night with Miranda's family and then they planned to drive to Jonathan's for Thursday night. Unfortunately, the van started running rough and they stopped in Joplin.One of the cylinder coils needed replacing, but it was closing time and they would work on in Friday AM. So they spent the night in a motel. They had to check out at noon, and Dan who was on the road, was able to connect with the bishop and his wife came and helped them get their luggage to the local ward building since the car was not ready. Once it was repaired they headed directly to our house and were here in time for dinner. We fed 22 that night. Deborah's family drove up later and went directly to the resort they were staying at. We have a sweet church couple that offered to let family stay free if we did not have room. So they stayed there as did Andy's family.
Saturday morning we had a log splitting activity for a long time church member who has provided many of us with firewood; but now he is unable to even start his chainsaw. There were three log splitters on sight (one refused to run!); there were 18 of us there helping. Andy, Dan, Adam, Aaron and I helped for 90 minutes and then returned home. Katie had mowed the yard, and Aaron did the weed whipping. Kera was busy making over 100 rolls and Miranda made two pans of 7-layer dip. I cleaned up and went to Walmart to pick up the cake ( we have ward member who works there and agreed to make it according to Kera's amazing design).
Sue and Steve made the run to Harp's to pick up the fruit, veggie, meat and veggie trays. It all came together before 3pm. We did have a couple of friends stop by early, but we were mostly ready. Sometime during this event, Sally arrived. Short of a miracle that she made it since she encounter delays, changes, and other challenges, not the least of which as she left her cell phone at home! That day we had 34 family member here and I estimated 60-70 friends stop by. We had sufficient food for our Kicking Off Our 50th Year reception. It was a long day and Sandy held up well. Deborah and family left due to Sunday responsibilities in their ward.
Sunday we enjoyed church. Adam left to drive to LR to catch his return flight. Andy and family left after dining on a wonderfully delicious dinner prepared by Steve S consisting of roast, potatoes, carrots, celery and onions. Kathy had a delicious apply crisp hot and ready for dessert. And then we visited some more.
I was able to go run three times and actually decrease my time by week's end. It has been wonderful having Sue and Steve here to help with Sandy; this has allowed me time to run errands and work on the rent house.
While working on the house Monday, Sandy had a dentist appointment and then had Sue and Steve take her to Walgreens for a few items. While getting out did her some good, this is also the day she 'crashed' (my term) and issued some edicts to Sue: contact Rebecca and others and tell them they need to come quickly. And amazingly, they were all able to come!
Kristy was one of those she wanted to see so we could close some financial issues. She was there before the day was over and brought three of her children. Besides being a support for Sandy, she was able to 'download' some important data into my brain; fortunately they live close enough that a refresher will be easy. Due to a Wednesday night commitment, they had to leave that afternoon. But it was great to have them visit.
I continued to work around family visits and was able to get the rent house trim 95% painted; so the walls will be easy to do. Hopefully it will be ready to go on the market by week's end.
Rebecca was able to change her flight plans for a visit in October and was due to fly into Springfield Thursday night. Adam had previously made flight arrangements into LR for the same night. Knowing that Adam only had a 40 minute layover in Denver, we were anxiously monitoring his flight status. We were focused on the wrong flight. He had no problems; he arrived in LR, picked up his rental car (a Dodge Charger!), and drove up arriving about 3 am Friday morning.
Meanwhile, Rebecca, who flew into Chicago had over three hours before her next flight. Unfortunately, that flight was cancelled as was the one they rebooked her on. So she spent the night in Chicago and was able to fly into LR Friday afternoon. Andy's family was leaving Friday; so Katie and drove one car to LR to pick up Rebecca and Andy drove the rest of the family direct to our house. All were here by dinner time.
Nathan flew into Tulsa on Wednesday, spent the night with Miranda's family and then they planned to drive to Jonathan's for Thursday night. Unfortunately, the van started running rough and they stopped in Joplin.One of the cylinder coils needed replacing, but it was closing time and they would work on in Friday AM. So they spent the night in a motel. They had to check out at noon, and Dan who was on the road, was able to connect with the bishop and his wife came and helped them get their luggage to the local ward building since the car was not ready. Once it was repaired they headed directly to our house and were here in time for dinner. We fed 22 that night. Deborah's family drove up later and went directly to the resort they were staying at. We have a sweet church couple that offered to let family stay free if we did not have room. So they stayed there as did Andy's family.
Saturday morning we had a log splitting activity for a long time church member who has provided many of us with firewood; but now he is unable to even start his chainsaw. There were three log splitters on sight (one refused to run!); there were 18 of us there helping. Andy, Dan, Adam, Aaron and I helped for 90 minutes and then returned home. Katie had mowed the yard, and Aaron did the weed whipping. Kera was busy making over 100 rolls and Miranda made two pans of 7-layer dip. I cleaned up and went to Walmart to pick up the cake ( we have ward member who works there and agreed to make it according to Kera's amazing design).
Sue and Steve made the run to Harp's to pick up the fruit, veggie, meat and veggie trays. It all came together before 3pm. We did have a couple of friends stop by early, but we were mostly ready. Sometime during this event, Sally arrived. Short of a miracle that she made it since she encounter delays, changes, and other challenges, not the least of which as she left her cell phone at home! That day we had 34 family member here and I estimated 60-70 friends stop by. We had sufficient food for our Kicking Off Our 50th Year reception. It was a long day and Sandy held up well. Deborah and family left due to Sunday responsibilities in their ward.
Sunday we enjoyed church. Adam left to drive to LR to catch his return flight. Andy and family left after dining on a wonderfully delicious dinner prepared by Steve S consisting of roast, potatoes, carrots, celery and onions. Kathy had a delicious apply crisp hot and ready for dessert. And then we visited some more.
Sunday, September 8, 2019
September, Already!?
September started off with, well, lots of heat. We have had 90+ temperatures all week. And it will stay that way until the end of the week, when the county fair ends. That is a local tradition: it is always hot the week of the fair. I did manage to get out and run three mornings this week. And then I wonder what the point of showering is; I will only need one later. But out of respect for those that might come in contact with me, I shower.
Monday while Deborah was here we checked out her rental house so she could see the 'after' view in person. And the property manager found a renter for it before the week was over. That means one less lawn for me to mow! We also stopped at one of our rentals to see what needs to be done to put it on the market. Sandy has wanted to sell this particular house for some time, but we needed to wait until her year lease was up. Then we gave her plenty of notice and a rent break for the last month.
Now the work for me begins.
I spent the week back and forth getting this house ready to paint. Unfortunately, it required more cleaning than originally intended. And after only a couple of hours there it was obvious the AC was not working properly. Had my AC man come check it out; three ducts were disconnected under the house, probably the result of unwanted cats getting in there. How did the tenant not notice the lack of cooling, or a high energy bill?? By the week's end, it is ready for paint.
One of Rebecca's houses needed three interior doors replaced. No problem. Not so. It took me four hours to get the job done. Needed to trim three sides of the new doors. Doors of the '60s aren't the same size as today.
Friday afternoon we met with a realtor about the house we want to put on the market. He shared some interesting information about how to price a house for your anticipated market. Good information to remember in the future.
One of my church responsibilities is organizing the monthly temple trips. We have a number of people that can only attend on a Saturday. So we had one set up for yesterday; had 10 people and the required two drivers for the van. Then at 8 pm Friday night I received a call; one of the drivers was sick and two others were unable to go. Fortunately one of them was willing to drive and had room for all seven.And there was additional excitement; one of the 70+ year old men almost passed out in the temple. His blood pressure took a plunge; the temple personnel were able to assist him and he was able to make the drive home that night.
Today we sang 'Happy 8th of September' to my brother; he doesn't do birthdays anymore. But that did not stop me from making a chocolate cherry cake, nor him from eating it!
Our priesthood lesson today was taken from President Eyring's talk in the recent priesthood session on faith and sustaining of leaders. We had an interesting discussion on what it means to sustain leaders and the dire consequences associated with turning our backs on their counsel.
Sandy has been maintaining as best possible, Her energy level is slowing down and her feet are swelling, but her attitude is still good. One of the church members loaned us a smaller, light weight wheel chair that she is now using when going to church.
This Saturday we look forward to celebrating our 49 anniversary with a small reception at the house.
Monday while Deborah was here we checked out her rental house so she could see the 'after' view in person. And the property manager found a renter for it before the week was over. That means one less lawn for me to mow! We also stopped at one of our rentals to see what needs to be done to put it on the market. Sandy has wanted to sell this particular house for some time, but we needed to wait until her year lease was up. Then we gave her plenty of notice and a rent break for the last month.
Now the work for me begins.
I spent the week back and forth getting this house ready to paint. Unfortunately, it required more cleaning than originally intended. And after only a couple of hours there it was obvious the AC was not working properly. Had my AC man come check it out; three ducts were disconnected under the house, probably the result of unwanted cats getting in there. How did the tenant not notice the lack of cooling, or a high energy bill?? By the week's end, it is ready for paint.
One of Rebecca's houses needed three interior doors replaced. No problem. Not so. It took me four hours to get the job done. Needed to trim three sides of the new doors. Doors of the '60s aren't the same size as today.
Friday afternoon we met with a realtor about the house we want to put on the market. He shared some interesting information about how to price a house for your anticipated market. Good information to remember in the future.
One of my church responsibilities is organizing the monthly temple trips. We have a number of people that can only attend on a Saturday. So we had one set up for yesterday; had 10 people and the required two drivers for the van. Then at 8 pm Friday night I received a call; one of the drivers was sick and two others were unable to go. Fortunately one of them was willing to drive and had room for all seven.And there was additional excitement; one of the 70+ year old men almost passed out in the temple. His blood pressure took a plunge; the temple personnel were able to assist him and he was able to make the drive home that night.
Today we sang 'Happy 8th of September' to my brother; he doesn't do birthdays anymore. But that did not stop me from making a chocolate cherry cake, nor him from eating it!
Our priesthood lesson today was taken from President Eyring's talk in the recent priesthood session on faith and sustaining of leaders. We had an interesting discussion on what it means to sustain leaders and the dire consequences associated with turning our backs on their counsel.
Sandy has been maintaining as best possible, Her energy level is slowing down and her feet are swelling, but her attitude is still good. One of the church members loaned us a smaller, light weight wheel chair that she is now using when going to church.
This Saturday we look forward to celebrating our 49 anniversary with a small reception at the house.
Sunday, September 1, 2019
The Week That Was!
Monday I managed to run. Then was off to a rent house that had just vacated (they were able to purchase a home). And they left it wonderfully clean! Because I had done extensive work last year to the upstairs, nothing else needs to be done there. However, the downstairs needed some additional work that did not get done then. So I spend the first part of the week installing vinyl planking in the two framed rooms downstairs, installing closet shelving and painting the remainder of the basement floor. Each upgrade highlights the other areas that need attention. But I am done for now! The basement walls can get painted next time! We were able to increase the rent 20%, so I feel pretty good about my accomplishments.
One of the rooms before flooring:
And after flooring:
Sarah wanted to make cookies (chocolate chip of course!) and Charlotte offered to help.
One of the rooms before flooring:
And after flooring:
The other room:
I also painted the stairs and installed a new handrail:
The before painting of the floor:
And the after painting. Note the ugly wall that won't get done this time around:
Tuesday we met with our attorney about a trust fund we are setting up. He and Sandy are on the same wave length discussing the intricacies of this legal doctrine and I have to remind them that I am a fox of a very small brain. Doesn't always work.
Deborah's family was scheduled to arrive Friday evening so we had things to do to get ready for them. Lawn mowed, extra beds set up, food purchased, and so on.
Saturday Steve and I transported two canoes to the Buffalo River to connect with Andy's family. They had brought two of their own kyakes and floated about 9 miles down the river. We drove Andy's truck to the pick up point, found a spot to park it and returned home. On the way home, the elder's quorum contacted me. A new family that had moved here needed unexpected help unloading a moving van. Seems the company did not find anyone to help offload the van, so assistance from church was requested. This might have been a simple task, except that the van was too long to get on their street, and the driveway was too windy for a large truck. So the moving van was parked in town and they rented a 26 foot U Haul. So, while it took us about 20 minutes to unload the U Haul, it took the driver and his assistant about an hour to shuttle back into town, load the U Haul and return. I was there for two truck unloadings and left; they had at least three more to go.
When Andy got back into town, I met him at the garage to store the canoes,. Then we came home for a delicious spaghetti dinner with garlic bread and a tossed salad. A very satisfying meal.
Today we heard some faith promoting testimonies and had an excellent discussion about spiritual gifts. So, what spiritual gifts have you? and which ones would you like to possess?
And this is what happens in our house on a Sunday when we have 18 people:
Sue is helping teach Aaron some genealogy research tips:
Sarah wanted to make cookies (chocolate chip of course!) and Charlotte offered to help.
And this is how we look when we dislike having our hair braided (and don't know the camera is on you):
And how we look after grandpa jokes with you:
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